1. I have absolutely no enthusiasm or energy to do any activity with the kids on my own - gone are the days when I would go on long drives with them, travel fourteen hours by flight or train, or just enjoy sitting around them doing some silly collages and finger paintin - all without any support from spouse or nanny.
2. My husband insists that we can no longer be refered to as a 'couple' - even by well meaning DJs at sundry parties. Its a term, he says, that is reserved for 20 somethings only.
3. My older one S, refuses to be part of any mom and kids dances.
4. My younger one, V, has assured me that I no longer need to carry milk powder and a flask of hot water whenever we travel.
Sigh, Sigh
